Jackie's Monthly Column - September 2007
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What Kind of Impact Do You Have?
Did you ever wonder why you bond with some people
better than others? There are several ways people
bond: through shared memories, through common
interests—like the same occupations or hobbies—and
even through the same troubles or the same joys.
Probably the quickest and deepest bonding happens when
two people share similar character qualities. Each
person has their own prescribed way of bonding that
works for them. However, if you are interested in
trying out a new venue there is one powerful bonding
that often gets overlooked—it is what I call elemental
impact.
Looking at the impact we have on each other through
the symbols of the four elements (fire, earth, air and
water) may seem like a far-out approach to bonding.
However, when you consider that everything in the
universe was created from the same basic elements, it
makes sense to consider how those four elements play
into your life. Just as each separate part of nature
interacts with other parts of nature in its own unique
way, so do people.
You don’t have to be an astrologer to watch what
happens when the different elements of nature
interact. For example, when water and earth interact,
they make mud. Air can stimulate fire if done in
reasonable measure, but you wouldn’t want to put water
or earth on fire. Air, water, and earth all bring
their gifts in different ways. Fire is a purifier and
brings warmth, water cleanses and refreshes, air is a
carrier and a connector, earth supports birth and
death. All four elements serve us in their own special
ways. Yet we must be careful when they get out of
control and get mixed in bad ways.
As people, we energetically impact the elements in
each other just as do those of nature. The impact may
look different in people but none the less it is
present. Just consider for a minute the type of
response you generally get from people. Take away the
subject of words, or even the intent of your Heart and
you will be able to determine your elemental impact.
To understand the correlation between the elements in
nature and those in people, look at physical action as
the earth element, emotions as the water element,
mental activity as the air element, and inspiration as
the fire element.
If people seldom get upset around you, you can safely
discount your impacting element as being water.
However, if people seem to come to new truths just by
being in your presence (not from what you tell them),
then more than likely your impacting element is fire.
If people ask you a lot of questions, your ego may
reach for the credit, but really it is your impacting
element of air stimulating their thinking. If people
around you are motivated to action, it may just be
that you are impacting them through your earth
element.
Here is a personal example of family impact. My
youngest son never felt he fit in our home. His older
brother and I very much loved and supported him, so I
was baffled by why he felt left out. But when I looked
at how he was impacted by me and his brother, I had a
clearer understanding.
His older brother brought the
character qualities of care and support in big
measure, but the impact energy of his being was the
physical earth. However, the youngest liked to be
impacted with the spiritual fire element. He received
best when someone theorized and philosophized with
him. While I liked to mentally theorize as much as my
youngest son, my energy impact on him was that of
emotion, or the water element. Needless to say, the
impact of the water element from me and the earth
element from his brother was not the kind of bonding
energy he was wanting. Therefore, his sense of not
belonging.
Let me encourage you to continue bonding in whatever
ways you have found workable for you, but add to that
resume an awareness of the bonding potential that you
energetically emit to create an elemental impact. This
new awareness tool will naturally come in handy in
your personal interactions, but it is also a useful
tool to use in the work place.